tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568535516334440848.comments2023-08-25T04:59:03.713-07:00Black, White and GreyDanitahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17538306732471371239noreply@blogger.comBlogger65125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568535516334440848.post-34537129294421738072018-06-16T22:09:53.713-07:002018-06-16T22:09:53.713-07:00Thank you so much for your kind words! I will stri...Thank you so much for your kind words! I will strive to write more often :)Danitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17538306732471371239noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568535516334440848.post-19831742574949906232018-03-17T12:44:50.019-07:002018-03-17T12:44:50.019-07:00Write more, thats all I have to say. Literally, it...Write more, thats all I have to say. Literally, it seems as though you relied on the video to make your point.<br /><br />You clearly know what youre talking about, why throw away your intelligence on just posting videos <br />to your blog when you could be giving us something enlightening <br />to read?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568535516334440848.post-30436716675124886042018-02-14T01:52:39.005-08:002018-02-14T01:52:39.005-08:00Thanks anonymous for your kind words. I know its c...Thanks anonymous for your kind words. I know its close to 3 years late, so aplologies. Enjoy your day :-)Danitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17538306732471371239noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8568535516334440848.post-65897481416593216972016-03-03T20:58:49.721-08:002016-03-03T20:58:49.721-08:00>> And not any random amount you choose from...>> And not any random amount you choose from "free will", this amount should be commensurate<br />>> with the needs and expectations of the family. <br /><br />Yeah right, and every night the man spends with his wife, he should also pay her what she expects. Duh.<br />If you are making the wife "pay" for her stay in the house, the husband also should pay for every service - food, housekeeping & more - he receives from the wife.<br />Actually it should be more. Maids & cooks are safer - they usually don't get beaten up or threatened or harassed by their employers. 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